11 May We have a great time together, lots of sexual chemistry, but as soon as we get going he loses his erection. He says he's very attracted to me and that it's only happened once or twice before. What could be the cause? A. It is difficult not to take an issue like this personally. We equate erection with sexual. 3 Apr “For a long time, I was shy about boys and sex. In high school, I promised my boyfriend of six months that if he officially asked me to prom, we could move on from dry humping to some more exciting stuff. I was terrified of the images of penises I'd seen from Googling, but I figured I'd have to take the leap at. Hi Doctor, I am a 21 y/o male in generally good health. I know my problem is psychological, since I can get an erection by myself and get morning erections. I just don't know what to do. I have no concerns about my sexuality. This has always gone on since I've been sexually active (18). It has gotten to the point that I don;t.